Spices of Life

{ Living Life by Ear }





Interesting topic isn't it?

Actually me and hubby normally alternates the duties of who's going to be the "mom" but depending who experiences it that particular day. Yet in a relationship with or free from kids, either one of you in some instance appears to be the "mommy" without being fully aware of it. Somebody who buys groceries, plans the trip or paying the bills .. in our household, hubby is the one who's "mommying" me I guess.

My husband perpetually drives the car for me, at one time we need to make a complain about something, he was the one who called or talked to the person's concerned. And on certain occasions I feel down, I move slowly to his lap thus he also help me add some songs to my ipod and assist me recording my fave movies and TV shows.

But the real "mommying" time comes at bedtime. He will actually "tell me a story" that easily takes me to lalaland, it's only random stuffs we are talking about but helps me feel relax while I snuggle up to him and embed my face deeply into my pillow.

Let's face it, too often we plainly want some Tender Loving Care so we exchange the "mommy" obligations particularly when somebody becomes ill or not feeling well. He normally tucks me in bed during night time because oftentimes, I'm acting like a bratty baby once I feel so exhausted.

How about you ladies, does your guy "mommies" you day in day out or maybe you are the significant "Mommy" in your marriage life? Share something if we have in common so I would be aware that I am not alone here. Well, I believe Im not :)




8 comments:

You are a little spoiled happy woman. Good for you. I feel my hubby is mothering me, too.

hahhaha....you are totally spoiled sistah dear...hehehe!

likewise most of the time hubby is mothering me too...:)

halos lahat ng na mentioned mo sistah parehas tayo...except the bedtime story...kay late naman si lola mo ma tog sa gabi...hahhaha...:)

happy din ako kasi si banana...very hands-on kay Akesha...bisan kapoy na sya sa trabaho...sya tawon mag alaga kay akesha pag abot nya....:) hehehe


woi sistah..makamuot man ko sa imo banana...unsay mag ebay nalang ka...naa diay kay ebay store?

speaking of sotanghon..nagluto ko gabie..sos maayo naman diay ka magluto ah...unsa man imo gisagol sa imo sotanghon pod?

sistah about tuod sa question mo sa EC...you can submit it anytime man sistah..wala man ata sila requirements...basta lang naa ka blog....:)

woi congrats...daghan nasad blog mo...yehey! parehas nata ani..pamugas pugas ba....hahaha...joker!

unsa man imo blog about sistah...when man nimo na e broadcast man? ako bitaw 2 nga blog kay wapa bya tawon to na broadcast nako ay...hehehe! excited nako nga makita imong new bog...hehehe!

hala sige sistah kay murag taas naman ning akong yawit dire...hehehe!

salamat sa pagbisita sistah ha...au-au diha permi...mwah!

enjoy kamo sa weekend nyo ugma...asa man diay mo?

my hubs drive, pay the bills, handles our household expenses, buys food. basically everything! me? i stay at home looking after my little one! hehehehe..

(i like ur blog, can i link u up?)

Your husband really indulged you in so many ways.I envy you.
Here in Japan,most of the Japanese husbands are so strict & they're not that showy,we're not even used to say "I Love Yous".But I can say atleast 'm lucky enough that my husband sometimes mothering me even not constantly.
My husband brings home the paycheck & I'm the one controls the household finances-that has long been the simple,traditional division of money responsibilities & me & my husband always had a shared task,even when it comes to driving issue kailangan palitan talaga hehe.
You're so lucky to have a sweet & darling husband who's mommying you all the time,inggit talaga ako hehe,but there is one thing mommy,atleast my hubby carried the heaviest one during our groceries hehe babaw talaga ng kaligayahan satisfied na agad.

hmm.. nice post Mommy.. but I think in our relationship I am the real Mommy.. he is just the driver.. but everything about the house is me.. or everything about caring, it's me.. even his eyeglasses, I'm the one cleaning it before he go.. everything..but of course I don't have a problem with that because I really really like pampering him hihi

you are so blessed Umma for having a hubby who mommies you and showers you TLC. You're one spoiled wifey! :)

My hubby is not like that. He grew up in a family where the women should serve the men and the kids. I do almost all the chores and errands but on weekends though, he cleans the house and washes the dishes. Just like Seiko, okay na din un heheh, babaw din ng kaligayahan ko, masaya na din ako dun pero kung better pa sana, mas masaya ako sympre! :)

same with Mommy Seiko--ganun nga talaga siguro ang mga sakang(^_^)pero ako din satisfied na pag every week ay nasa labas kami magkasama at Friday night eh beer time namin!hahahaa!!ang babaw ng kaligayahan ko!\(^0^)/

Wow that's really sweet of your husband. I guess there are moments when women just want to be pampered and spoiled and treated like a princess, especially by their husbands. I hope more husbands are this sensitive to their wives! Thanks for sharing this :)